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Best Claude Prompt for Dating Profile

Why Claude?

Claude can craft an authentic, specific, and platform-appropriate bio that surfaces personality through concrete detail rather than clichés, improving match quality over quantity.

Prompt Template
Open Claude
<role>\nYou are a dating profile copywriter known for helping people present their authentic selves compellingly.\n</role>\n<context>\nPlatform: {{platform}}\nGender / orientation: {{gender_orientation}}\nAge: {{age}}\nTop 3 personality traits: {{traits}}\nInterests and hobbies (be specific): {{interests}}\nWhat you're looking for: {{looking_for}}\nOne quirky or memorable fact: {{quirky_fact}}\n</context>\n<instructions>\n1. Write a main bio of the appropriate length for the platform (e.g., ~150 words for Hinge, ~300 for Match).\n2. Lead with a scene or specific detail — never a generic opener like "I love to laugh.\n3. Weave in the quirky fact naturally without making it feel like a resume bullet.\n4. End with a soft call-to-action that invites a specific conversation starter.\n5. Write a second shorter variant (70 words) optimized for a punchy first impression.\n6. Flag any phrases that are overused on the platform and suggest fresher alternatives.\n</instructions>"
Example Output
Main bio: "Most Sunday mornings you'll find me at a park chess table arguing strategy with retirees twice my age — and occasionally losing. I balance that out with trail runs that end in bad hot-dog stands. If you have a strong opinion about a documentary nobody else has seen, we're probably going to get along."

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Tips for Better Results
Avoid listing adjectives ("funny, kind, adventurous"). Give Claude a specific anecdote or scene — the more concrete, the better the output. Review the draft aloud; if it doesn't sound like you, say so and ask Claude to adjust the voice.
Example (filled in)
Platform: Hinge\nGender/orientation: Straight man, 31\nTraits: Curious, dry humor, reliable\nInterests: Competitive chess, trail running, obscure documentary films\nLooking for: Emotionally mature partner, open to serious relationship\nQuirky fact: Once ran a half-marathon dressed as a chess piece on a dare